Concept Awesome, Teeny tiny linkspam on greyness

Teeny tiny linkspam on greyness

I’ve been wanting to put together a linkspam on greyromanticism to refer people to for a while, but I realized that…there’s almost nothing written on greyromanticism. There is a whole lot written on grey-asexuality, though, and there are some ways in which grey-asexuality and greyromanticism can be very similar. Thus this linkspam was born!

This linkspam is by no means comprehensive! (For example, I’ve made an executive decision to only include one post from my demisexual linkspam.) It’s pretty much just an aggregation of things that I tend to link people to when they ask about greyness. I’m also defining “greyness” as any experience that is neither allo(romantic/sexual) nor a(romantic/sexual), so you’ll see that I’ve included some pieces written by people who identify as wtfromantic (or otherwise romantically wibbly).

Anyway, here goes!

Conceptualizing greyness:

Many ways to be between by Siggy

“Experiences attraction infrequently” doesn’t cut it by Spade

Alloromantics vs. aromantics: the great divide by me (here on The Asexual Agenda)

Maybe you’d like some more words related to greyness? Or perhaps some words for people who struggle with the concept of romantic attraction?

Greyness is fuzzy (or slippery or confusing or hard to delineate):

If You Can See the Invisible Elephant, Please Describe It by Sciatrix

epochryphal on Greyness: 301 (and Spade’s response)

Ultraviolet and Not Prime by aceadmiral

How to decide the boundary line between demiromanticism and alloromanticism

A Set of Affections Difficult to Characterize by Sciatrix